"I am known for "forgiving myself and not holding a grudge," which I now attribute to SDAM. As for shame? Maybe yes, if there's such a thing as "semantic shame.""

"I have the same problems, it's difficult. If the person has another hairstyle or anything else since the last meet, most of the time I let them greet me first.  If it's not to far away we met each other, I am able to regognize the person by his/her voice - but in the most cases without a name.  What learned to do, is to play the game "oh wow you're here, long time not seen" without trying to use a name. In over 90 % it works well and the other person did not realize that I can't remember him/her. Didn't found any other way yet to compensate this behavior."

"I have the exact opposite, so much so that I seem to recognise almost everyone I have ever seen.  I once did an extensive set of online tests which afterwards suggested that I might be classified as a 'Super recogniser'."

"I am known for "forgiving myself and not holding a grudge," which I now attribute to SDAM. As for shame? Maybe yes, if there's such a thing as "semantic shame.""

"I have the same problems, it's difficult. If the person has another hairstyle or anything else since the last meet, most of the time I let them greet me first.  If it's not to far away we met each other, I am able to regognize the person by his/her voice - but in the most cases without a name.  What learned to do, is to play the game "oh wow you're here, long time not seen" without trying to use a name. In over 90 % it works well and the other person did not realize that I can't remember him/her. Didn't found any other way yet to compensate this behavior."

"I have the exact opposite, so much so that I seem to recognise almost everyone I have ever seen.  I once did an extensive set of online tests which afterwards suggested that I might be classified as a 'Super recogniser'."